<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>二児パパ、生存中 — in English</title><description>English versions of posts from a Nagoya dad reading the parenting research at 3 a.m.</description><link>https://nijidad.com/</link><language>en</language><item><title>Your Kid Will Answer You in Japanese. It Isn&apos;t Because You Failed</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/nihongo-de-itte/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/nihongo-de-itte/</guid><description>I lived in the US until I was 24. My three-year-old in Nagoya still tells me to say it in Japanese — and the arithmetic says she&apos;d need 47 years to catch up to my grade-school English. Here&apos;s why comprehension, not speech, is the honest target.</description><pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2026 14:58:15 GMT</pubDate><category>3歳</category><category>英語</category></item><item><title>If Your Baby Cries the Second You Sit Down, Get Up and Walk</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/transport-response/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/transport-response/</guid><description>Walk and the crying stops; sit down and it starts again. It is called the transport response: walk 5 minutes, sit 5–8 more, then put them down.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 13:17:06 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category></item><item><title>It Never Said &quot;Stop Co-Sleeping&quot;: Building a Safe Sleep Environment (A Serious One)</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/safe-sleep-asia/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/safe-sleep-asia/</guid><description>The guidelines never say &quot;stop co-sleeping&quot; — they say same room, separate sleep surface. Four things to take home, and why knowing them was not enough.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 05:54:43 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category><category>寝かしつけ</category></item><item><title>“Moisturize and They Won’t Get Allergies” Turned Out to Be Too Simple: Eczema and Food Allergies</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/hoshitsu-to-allergy/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/hoshitsu-to-allergy/</guid><description>A Cochrane review found it hard to say moisturizer alone prevents eczema in healthy babies. That is not a reason to stop caring for skin that already needs it.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 05:54:10 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category><category>アレルギー</category></item><item><title>The Day I Closed the Parenting Book Without a Word: For Vaccine Schedules, Trust Today&apos;s Official Sources</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/vaccine-schedule-today/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/vaccine-schedule-today/</guid><description>The schedule chart in the parenting book I bought secondhand was already out of date. Rotavirus and the 5-in-1 start at 2 months — check today&apos;s official pages.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 05:53:45 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category><category>予防接種</category></item><item><title>No Honey, and Water at 70°C: Feeding a Baby Under One Has Surprisingly Few &apos;Absolutes&apos;</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/hachimitsu-to-70do/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/hachimitsu-to-70do/</guid><description>Only two real absolutes for feeding a baby under one: no honey before age one, and formula mixed at 70°C or hotter. Read weight as a line, not a point.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 05:52:37 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category><category>離乳食</category></item><item><title>Why Talk to Someone Who Can&apos;t Talk Back? The Answer From 102 Trials</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/hanashikake-no-imi/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/hanashikake-no-imi/</guid><description>102 trials across 33 countries say talking to your baby works — and the biggest change showed up on the parents&apos; side. You respond to the signals they send.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 05:52:11 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category><category>発達</category></item><item><title>All My 3 a.m. Searching Left Me Was Anxiety: A Reading Order for Parenting Information</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/ikuji-joho-jun/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/ikuji-joho-jun/</guid><description>An hour of searching at 3 a.m. left me nothing but anxiety. The problem was not the amount of information — it was the order I read it in. Five sources, five jobs.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 05:50:33 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category></item><item><title>How Not to Gain Weight on No Sleep: Protein, Iron, and That Marvel of Civilization, the Hot Pot</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/protein-iron-nabe/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/protein-iron-nabe/</guid><description>You cannot out-willpower sleep-deprived hunger. A palm-sized serving of protein at every meal, iron for my breastfeeding wife, and exactly one pot to wash.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 03:51:53 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category></item><item><title>Midnight Ice Cream and Chips Weren’t Weak Willpower: Sleep Deprivation and Weight (A Serious One)</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/sleep-and-weight/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/sleep-and-weight/</guid><description>Sleeping 1.2 hours more a day cut calorie intake by 270 kcal. Gaining weight while raising a baby is not weak willpower — it is physiology.</description><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jul 2026 03:50:05 GMT</pubDate><category>0歳</category></item><item><title>The Night I Didn&apos;t Hear the Baby Cry</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/night-i-didnt-hear-crying/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/night-i-didnt-hear-crying/</guid><description>Right beside me the baby cried, my wife got up, changed, fed and settled everyone — and I slept through every second of it. The night I heard nothing.</description><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2026 18:08:31 GMT</pubDate></item><item><title>So I Started a Blog. (At 3 a.m.)</title><link>https://nijidad.com/en/blog/hajimemashita-3am/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://nijidad.com/en/blog/hajimemashita-3am/</guid><description>A dad in Nagoya, standing in a dim kitchen at 3 a.m. shaking a bottle, wondering how many others were awake too. Why this blog exists, and who it is for.</description><pubDate>Wed, 29 Jul 2026 17:16:35 GMT</pubDate></item></channel></rss>